First Date Guide

Well of course this is up to you and will depend on how you met.

If you have met online, or this is an arranged blind date, we suggest a coffee at a local cafe is a good starting point for an introductory date. And guys, be sure to let the girls choose a spot, she will feel much more comfortable being in control of the location. This can only be a good thing, right?!

A public location should always be chosen for a date of this kind. It is also advisable to let somebody know what you are doing, just in case! Don't let your pride get in the way, these kind of dates are becoming ever more common in today's society.

Sometimes it is a good idea to make the first date a short one. Making this known up front is a good idea too, so that it doesn't appear that you are trying to run for it. An appointment or some other excuse might work well. Make your good impression and then follow up later while they are hopefully still keen. This also gives both parties the ability to get out if the date is not going badly.

Remember, not every date is perfect, but you can often learn something from a good or a bad date, if you are willing to take the time! You can then apply your new found wisdom on your next date.

If coffee doesn't suit you, check out these other great date ideas